1. Not k1ssing Believe it or not, many people (and this includes women) don't k1ss their partner when they're having s3x. Why? Perhaps because the positioning doesn't allow for it or they are too eager to cl1max and feel that it might break the rhythm. Nevertheless, it is highly recommended that you make an effort to k1ss your partner during the act - it will only add to the experience.
2. B1ting before your partner's ready While many people enjoy an aggressive partner, b1ting any part of their body before they are ar0us3d may lead to pain and discomfort (and might even lessen the chances of any further action ) or simply scare them off. So make sure your partner is fully excited before you bi'te their ear, shoulders, neck or any other part of their body.
3. Ignoring everything but s3'xualised parts G3ni'tals are great, no doubt, but you should definitely pay attention to other parts of your l0ver's body and focus for some time on their entire body - knees, wrists, back and stomach are highly er0gen0us zones for men as well as women. Gently car3ssing these areas will help excite your partner further; in turn, increasing the chances of them pl3asuring you back.
4. Putting your weight on your partner Even if you're a girl! It's okay to l0se yourself in the moment every once in a while and go crazy on your l0ver. But when you're ly'ing on t0p of them, you have to be careful not to drop your weight on them. Chocking them or hindering their ability to breathe will anyway ki'll the moment and any chances of some good action.
5. Cl1m'axing too soon/ too late This one is especially for men. You need to have good control on your muscles to ensure that you can ej@cul@te at an appropriate time. Too soon and you may leave your partner uns@tisfied; too late and it might leave your partner feeling as if they're pumping iron at the gym. To avoid this, spend a lot more time on f0re'play (this will help men as well as women). If you take too long and can only ej@cul@te via manual st1mul@tion, do your best to get your partner to 0rg@sm and then they can return you the favour.
6. Not warning your partner before you cl1m'ax If you're going to let go - and this applies even to women - whether during 0r'al s3'x or int3rc0urse, you need to tell your partner beforehand. Something as simple as "I'm going to let go," will suffice. Your partner deserves to know.
7. Treating s3'x like p0'rn Although some couples enjoy having r@u'nchy s3'x, you'd be wise to talk to your partner before you engage in such behaviour. If you begin being nasty with your l0'ver without knowing if they like it first, chances are the scenario won't end on a happy note.
8. Staying quiet Do you like to hear it when your partner is having a g00d time? So pay them the same respect and speak up when you're enjoying yourself. Something as simple as a little m0an, or even saying something like, "that feels so good," will encourage them and educate them further on your m0an zones.
9. Mechanical act It may feel comfortable to you to pump away like you do at the gym, but you'll quickly discover that most people don't enjoy such an act. Mix it up a little bit; go fast at times, then slowly. Be creative and you'll find yourself enjoying some variation too.
