S3X can be beautiful and wonderful. It’s supposed to be a fun and intimate release. Not every time you have S3X is going to be mind blowing, sacred or even romantic, but it can rock your world. Sometimes S3X is just S3X and there is no love involved, and that has its place too, but what it should never be is a chore, forced or one-sided for anyone. S3X is a two-person sport where toys and body parts are our tools of pleasure and everyone involved needs to want to be there. Still, even under the best of circumstances S3X can fall short of our expectations. For men, S3X is almost purely physical, and for women it is mostly mental; life’s cruel joke. We ladies just have to be in the right state of mind for S3X to be enjoyable. The only problem is that different states of mind warrant different types of S3X and some states of mind warrant no S3X at all.
Here is a list of mistakes that we’ve all made during S3X. Stop getting in your own way and go enjoy all that lovely S3X being offered to you. There is no wrong way to have S3X (well, unless it’s anally and hey guys, a little warning would be nice) but there are definitely some things that get in your head and cause you to not be able to relax and enjoy all of that lovely touching, kissing and fondling; physical intimacy.
1. Overthinking it
When it comes to S3X, just do it and enjoy it. I mean seriously, if you think about anything too much it becomes a chore and S3X should never be a chore. If you are not enjoying it, you are not doing it right.
2. Worrying about how you look
Who cares? Think of it this way, when you are in the middle of making love are you looking at your partner thinking, dang, he sure makes weird faces when he 0rgas'ms or are you thinking damn, it sure feels good when we 0rgas'm? S3X should be something you are so involved in when it’s happening that you don’t have the time to waste worrying about what it all looks like on film, unless of course you’re a porn star.
3. Talking too much
A little talking is okay but when you are in the middle of S3X no one wants to hear you say, “Oh yeah, remind me tomorrow to buy toilet paper.” Also, I don’t need a play-by-play and I certainly don’t want to congratulate a man on every single move he makes and please, don’t...CONTINUE READING
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