...call me a “dirty whore.” I am not one and even if I like to get a little nasty between the sheets for his pleasure, I don’t want to be called out for it. It’s not S3Xy and it’s a mood killer. Also, ladies, don’t call out the wrong name. No, guy wants to hear “Christian Grey” screamed out while he’s doing all the heavy lifting.
4. Not being fully present
Get into it. Enjoy it. S3X is supposed to be fun and pleasurable. You don’t need to be the best but a little enthusiasm goes a long way. Don’t tense up or start thinking about grocery lists and laundry. Give that man a little encouragement and sweet direction; he will happily satisfy your desires if you just ask for it. Men are not mind readers and expecting them to be is ridiculous.
5. Faking it
I don’t believe in faking 0rgas'ms. You cannot fake an 0rgas'm until you make it. If you fake it, you’ll never 0rgas'm because he will stop trying and let’s be honest; S3X without an 0rgas'm occasionally is fine but S3X without 0rgas'ms forever, what’s the point? I know we don’t always have an hour or more to get juices flowing with massage oils and scented candles, not with kids and all, and that is what quickies are made for. Believe me in the right state of mind even a quickie can be satisfying but I refuse to fake an 0rgas'm and you should too.
Believe me, I know men make mistakes too. Hello, tuning in Tokyo is not my idea of foreplay, and pssst… most women do not 0rgas'm from penetration alone. Also, whoever told men that any woman ever found having their head pushed into a lap even remotely attractive lied. But if you are willing and present, S3X can be magical and mind blowing and I swear, once I saw a unicorn fly across the room after 0rgas'ming. So, ladies and gentlemen, go get your groove on just keep in mind that there are usually at least two people involved and it should be fun for everyone.
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