1. He is Married
I’m sure he tells you that he is not happy with his wife, this is only making him an unhappy married man not necessarily unattached, what he did not tell you is that you are just an item!
2. You Are an Accomplice to Adultery
Sincerely you might be thinking you are not the one breaking the vows but to be honest with you, you are helping him to break them. Remember the vow he made, “ to forsake all others” he will never be faithful to you as well.
3. He Won’t Leave Her for You
This is naivety of high level! I don’t care how many promises he made to you, never expect him to leave his wife and come and marry you, just be prepared for a heart break when he moves to another woman who is naive as you are.
4. Prepare for Hide and Seek AffairYou really can’t lie to people you are having a relationship because sooner it is going to boil down to lies, he will have to hide from his friends in fear of been seen with you and report to his precious wife.
5. He Doesn’t Know How to Handle Problems
You knowingly hooked up with a man who leave alone helping you with solving problems can’t solve problems in his family. Any time you have a problem will be a high time for him to seek peace somewhere else.
6. He is the Only Winner
Oooh yes! You are a total looser in this game. He affords to spend all his days with you and the nights with his wife, if by chance he is tired of you, he can move on with no strings attached. It will be easier for him to think of another person if he could do that to someone whom he is legally bound, what you think he will do to you bound by verbally. You are only known to his friends as a “husband snatcher”.
7. Time is Too Precious to Waste
Women aren’t like men, very quickly you will start showing wrinkles and grey hair and your pretty look will disappear. All that time wasted playing in the name of a relationship you could have utilized it on someone who was serious to settle with you.
8. You are Spending Special Days Alone
Everyone likes spending Christmas and valentine days with their loved ones. It is hurting in this days (feels like been thrown cold water in the face) after realizing he is not following you but instead he is taking his family out, to your surprise even he doesn’t pick your calls nor answer your texts.
9. It Damages Your Reputation as a Woman
Dating a married man you are frequently perceived to have low self-esteem or a woman of loose moral character. Seldom are mistresses believed to be trustworthy individuals and deserving of public respect.
10. Cheating Hurts Children
When children discover that their dad has had an affair on their mother it hurts, distrust and bitterness that can last a life time. In cases where their dad leaves to marry a mistress, rarely do mans’ children grow to love and respect the new wife.
Now you know!
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